What I mean, is that now we are having a debate about whether the racism I have experienced in my skin for decades is real. Or not. Which is tiring. Did you live in my skin? Did you have to endure demeaning comments as a child, explain yourself? Always be ready to defend yourself when people would beat you up as a kid, or treat you as second rate citizen wherever you are? My experience is my expertise. You do not get to tell me how I should have felt, how I should interpret whatever racist BS is happening. This is not a debate club. The only thing I, and anyone who suffered from racism ask you is to LISTEN, try to acknowledge for once that we are tired. We just want human decency without being questioned. You could just say, oh wow, I had no idea. I’ll do better.