Oh well, my white friends usually tell me that I am being negative and my world is determined by what I give my attention to. If I see things in a negative light it is only my fault, and not the racist asshole's who just made comment about how I was going to EAT my dog, because it was"in my culture". Um, wow, okay, I will try and unhear it, thanks for the great advice.

Maybe they manifested their ultra positive outlook on life, or maybe it is white privilege.